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Big Red Flags: "subtle" hints something might not go well.

2017.06.20 14:22 buttlord5000 Big Red Flags: "subtle" hints something might not go well.

Big Red Flags: "subtle" hints something might not go well. It may be a text message from a dating website match, it could be a craigslist ad, or maybe even behavior from a new friend.
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2014.12.16 17:01 Tnargkiller Beggars can't be choosers!

This subreddit is for posting screenshots, pictures, or stories of people who are being way too picky
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2014.05.12 21:15 SocialSoundSystem Burner: Privacy First

A Burner is a privacy layer for your life.
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2020.09.20 00:29 kirillavitch $767 / 1br - Master Bedroom and bath (Fairfax)

Master bedroom with private full bath in Fairfax townhome available for sublet. Room is on the top floor facing out to walking path and stream.

Craigslist link: https://washingtondc.craigslist.org/nva/sub/d/chantilly-master-bedroom-and-bath/7199372661.html
Move in date is Oct 1st, Sublease expires March 1st.
Two existing tenants both male working mid 20s professionals. Living area is furnished, private bedroom is not, utilities split among roommates
Townhome located on Broomsedge Ct in Fairfax VA
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2020.09.19 22:24 FastBrilliant1 Inexperienced with guys curious guy here - should I wait to try sex with someone I care about. a.k.a. are hookups a bad idea?

Hey gaybros, 42yo guy here in the UK. Been straight most of my life but have been curious for a long time too. Some people might describe me as bi, or even gay. I haven't really found labels to be very helpful though tbh. I should say I've enjoyed numerous hookups with women in my life and rarely if ever suffered any kind of strong negative self-directed emotions. I'm not after an opinion or judgement over whether it's ethically right or wrong to have gay sex (I believe it's totally ok as long as it's between consenting adults). I just seem to be 'stuck' (?) in this space where I do fantasize about having sex with guys, but I think it would be better if I waited to do it with someone I cared about (vs. just find a hookup on grindr / online). Just wondering how much value there is to waiting to do it with someone I have some proper connection with - especially as it would be my first proper time. My only other experience was kind of out of desperation / boredom / impatience when I met someone through Craigslist and it just kind of gross. I felt somewhat gross afterwards - the guy was a bit of a dick and it was all hurried (just JO).
Since then I've lost count of the number of guys I've flirted with online - rarely even sharing face pictures but nearly all other types pictures - but never gone through and met up with. I feel nervous about doing so and I question whether it's because I really want to find someone that I have something meaningful with, or I'm just scared of something that will be great. I sometimes explain to guys I chat with that I'm a bit nervous about meeting up. There are cool / nice guys who say 'no worries, take your time, let me know when you're ready' kind of thing but I haven't taken that step with. I guess the best thing might be to meet people for 'dates' - a coffee, something friendly and relaxed..?
Peace xx
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2020.09.19 20:35 FunboyFrags Small back cottage studio, modern, peaceful, all utilities included

Furnished backyard cottage rendered in the (somewhat oxymoronic) modern Spanish colonial style for rent with a flexible start date. A secluded and relaxing oasis in the heart of central Los Angeles, this backyard studio features style and amenities rarely seen in the rental market.
The main living area has hardwood floors, crown molding, and double French doors leading outside.
The kitchenette features Caesarstone (polished quartz) countertops, subway tile backsplash and lots of cabinets. The appliances include a large refrigeratofreezer, gas range, oven, broiler, exhaust hood, and Insinkerator disposal. The bathroom also has a Caesarstone vanity, full tub and shower, and dual-flush water efficient toilet.
Amenities include: - 100-megabit wireless internet - Central heating and A/C with smart thermostat - Keyless entry- Low-energy LED canister lighting - Integrated USB wall charger - Tankless water heater - Extra storage space in the garage
Our neighborhood, West Adams, is literally the most central part of Los Angeles. If you take Metro, a 10-minute walk to the nearby Farmdale station will take you to Santa Monica, Culver City, or downtown LA with equal ease and speed. If you drive, there's fast access to the 10 at La Brea or Crenshaw. There's a public park with basketball courts and a playground about 5 minutes away.
Nearby shops and restaurants include Delicious Pizza, Alta, Bee Taqueria, Mizlala (Israeli), Sweet E's Bakery, Honeybee's House of Breakfast, Los Avayas, and the brand-new Johnny's Pastrami. Plus there's lots of eateries all along Crenshaw Ave, featuring some of LA's best soul food.
What are the cons?
- the place is small - think Holiday Inn Express - probably not good for anyone with a lot of stuff - the outside/yard is a wreck, but we're in the middle of redoing it - no laundry on-site (but there are several nearby laundromats)
What are the pros?
- it's private - we're cool - we have a lot of animals
This is an exceptional place to live and will require a rental application and a credit check. Finally, pets are a possibility, but yours must get along with our dog and multiple cats. Monthly rent is $1299 and includes all utilities (water, gas, electricity, trash and wireless internet).
(See original post at https://losangeles.craigslist.org/lac/apa/d/los-angeles-small-back-cottage-studio/7199213561.html for photos)
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2020.09.19 19:19 Tremelune Where do you search for rare used cars?

I'm in a nationwide search for a rare, modernish car for the first time in years, and I want to make sure my tactics are up-to-date. My routine is this:
1) Check/subscribe to classified forums for that particular make/model.
2) Craigslist alerts for nearby cities. Maybe use Search/AutoTempest to search all of Craigslist...which is neat, but not easy to automate.
3) AutotradeAutotrader Classic alerts.
4) Cars.com alerts.
5) Begrudgingly search Facebook...Maybe figure out if you can save searches...
Am I missing any whoppers? I fear Carvana and CarMax and the like, because maintenance and condition is of paramount importance, and there's no opportunity to speak with the prior owner.
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2020.09.19 03:10 areyna1231 Could it really be me that is problematic?

Me female (43) and he male (39)....we aren't married. We have been involved 7 1/2 years. There is so much so im going to try to condense this and still convey a clear pic of the issues. I realize how I am just another stranger on the internet and yall have no way of gauging my sincerity but I want to say how Im not the kind to tell the story where I am the infinite victim who never did wrong to him because i absolutely have....so this isn't self serving is my point . Ok...moving on...7 years ago I was in the throws of a nasty heroin addiction and my once great life had been reduced to couchsurfing and selling sex to support the habit. I didn't get my tricks walking the street but rather i used internet apps...craigslist...backpage and chat lines! (I even laughed that a chat line still exists) . One slow night I was using chat line and i connected w my current boyfriend. We hooked up that same night, cash was exchanged. ...BUT...I felt guilt taking the payment for services because we had thee most insane chemistry and the sex was mindblowing! With other customers I rushed it and was hardly a participant because more often then not with trix I had a revolving door or the men who wanted me to shit on their chest or dress them up like a female...and almost always very unattractive..but with "J" .....lets call my guy "J".....wity him that night i was attracted and we had good convo. I told my sjs the next day how i wanted to see him again but if i did it would only be business and I allowed myself to imagine something more. keep in mind at this time in my life i was desperately yearning for normalcy again and to have a sex life where i enjoyed it and didn't negotiate funds in advance. WELL..J did contact me two days later and told me- not asked- told me I was going to be his girlfriend. LOL...wow....and I was like fuck it....and we were never not together since that day. Obviously I been around and i always remind me on how there is ALWAYS something with a man. A quirk or a kink that surfaces after ur in love....I watched and waited for that shoe to drop. He is basically normal A type latino/severe titty baby about his mom/ snobbish/ GOD fearing 🙄/closed minded sexually/no drink smoke. drugs/no criminal record/ good credit/ respectable/responsible...nothing too bad. We were an odd match. J is the decent dude from a family w some cash...is a male label ho...drives fancy expensive cars and lives in a nice area whereas me....fuck man...did i mention I was a hooker? That says it all. We were polar opposite from where we was from and who we were. I showed him how us poor ghetto folk live and it humbled him. He showed me respect. Never....and rhat isnt an exaggeration...NEVER has he hit me or calked me out my name or threw in my face how we met. Under other circumstances we would not dated. So....7 years we went thru cheating on both ends...threesomes...my relapses and rehab stints....my stays at psych wards (severe PTSD) and my insane insecurities and jealousy thinking how it made no sense he wld want me since I had literally only my few old posessions and me. I knew he loved me. Well..the things that tarnish this lovely pic ive painted...here we go.....he never confessed cheating cause i caught him...he puts his mom before me and. allow her to screwup our plans cause everything is dropped for her...he let me be homeless in the winter sleeping in my car twice cause he wld not have me over cause his mom and him live together. By the way the mon doesnt like me. Ive never met not 1 friend....he password locks his cell....he has a pic of his car in jis cell as screensaver instead of me. I expressed marriage and he went along letting me look at rings...we talked on living together but that like many things...when it came time to act on them he wld come up witu more hurdles to cross then when i did there wld be more. Finally he said he wont live with me because......................I leave to work at 4am daily and I get in a bad mood too much for his comfort . He wont marry me cause he says its too risky with me struggling with major depression and having episodes at times. These are things he had recently said. the time prior to this one i told him to not be selfish let me go so i can find a man who will marry me etc...he of course fed me crumbs of hope again and i stayed again and now this. I have got clean....kept my job...pay my own bills...stopped smoking...got a handle on my aggression all at his request....remember..i jumped over all those hurdles to show him my commitment and cause i loved him. And here we are. He does help financially and has given me cars. I appreciate the financial help but i explain that i want to live together and get married...he says basically i should just be grateful for his generosity. Am I being an asshole here? He makes me feel like since i lived the life i have somehow im not worthy of those things. I should not dare gripe and thank the GODS that he chose a person like me. What do I do? I love him but he wont move forward and i know its me. I cant make more changes aside from being a whole different person. Its so heartbreaking. please be honest w yall thoughts. And thanks for reading
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2020.09.19 03:10 areyna1231 Could it really be me that is problematic?

Me female (43) and he male (39)....we aren't married. We have been involved 7 1/2 years. There is so much so im going to try to condense this and still convey a clear pic of the issues. I realize how I am just another stranger on the internet and yall have no way of gauging my sincerity but I want to say how Im not the kind to tell the story where I am the infinite victim who never did wrong to him because i absolutely have....so this isn't self serving is my point . Ok...moving on...7 years ago I was in the throws of a nasty heroin addiction and my once great life had been reduced to couchsurfing and selling sex to support the habit. I didn't get my tricks walking the street but rather i used internet apps...craigslist...backpage and chat lines! (I even laughed that a chat line still exists) . One slow night I was using chat line and i connected w my current boyfriend. We hooked up that same night, cash was exchanged. ...BUT...I felt guilt taking the payment for services because we had thee most insane chemistry and the sex was mindblowing! With other customers I rushed it and was hardly a participant because more often then not with trix I had a revolving door or the men who wanted me to shit on their chest or dress them up like a female...and almost always very unattractive..but with "J" .....lets call my guy "J".....wity him that night i was attracted and we had good convo. I told my sjs the next day how i wanted to see him again but if i did it would only be business and I allowed myself to imagine something more. keep in mind at this time in my life i was desperately yearning for normalcy again and to have a sex life where i enjoyed it and didn't negotiate funds in advance. WELL..J did contact me two days later and told me- not asked- told me I was going to be his girlfriend. LOL...wow....and I was like fuck it....and we were never not together since that day. Obviously I been around and i always remind me on how there is ALWAYS something with a man. A quirk or a kink that surfaces after ur in love....I watched and waited for that shoe to drop. He is basically normal A type latino/severe titty baby about his mom/ snobbish/ GOD fearing 🙄/closed minded sexually/no drink smoke. drugs/no criminal record/ good credit/ respectable/responsible...nothing too bad. We were an odd match. J is the decent dude from a family w some cash...is a male label ho...drives fancy expensive cars and lives in a nice area whereas me....fuck man...did i mention I was a hooker? That says it all. We were polar opposite from where we was from and who we were. I showed him how us poor ghetto folk live and it humbled him. He showed me respect. Never....and rhat isnt an exaggeration...NEVER has he hit me or calked me out my name or threw in my face how we met. Under other circumstances we would not dated. So....7 years we went thru cheating on both ends...threesomes...my relapses and rehab stints....my stays at psych wards (severe PTSD) and my insane insecurities and jealousy thinking how it made no sense he wld want me since I had literally only my few old posessions and me. I knew he loved me. Well..the things that tarnish this lovely pic ive painted...here we go.....he never confessed cheating cause i caught him...he puts his mom before me and. allow her to screwup our plans cause everything is dropped for her...he let me be homeless in the winter sleeping in my car twice cause he wld not have me over cause his mom and him live together. By the way the mon doesnt like me. Ive never met not 1 friend....he password locks his cell....he has a pic of his car in jis cell as screensaver instead of me. I expressed marriage and he went along letting me look at rings...we talked on living together but that like many things...when it came time to act on them he wld come up witu more hurdles to cross then when i did there wld be more. Finally he said he wont live with me because......................I leave to work at 4am daily and I get in a bad mood too much for his comfort . He wont marry me cause he says its too risky with me struggling with major depression and having episodes at times. These are things he had recently said. the time prior to this one i told him to not be selfish let me go so i can find a man who will marry me etc...he of course fed me crumbs of hope again and i stayed again and now this. I have got clean....kept my job...pay my own bills...stopped smoking...got a handle on my aggression all at his request....remember..i jumped over all those hurdles to show him my commitment and cause i loved him. And here we are. He does help financially and has given me cars. I appreciate the financial help but i explain that i want to live together and get married...he says basically i should just be grateful for his generosity. Am I being an asshole here? He makes me feel like since i lived the life i have somehow im not worthy of those things. I should not dare gripe and thank the GODS that he chose a person like me. What do I do? I love him but he wont move forward and i know its me. I cant make more changes aside from being a whole different person. Its so heartbreaking. please be honest w yall thoughts. And thanks for reading
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2020.09.19 00:07 1Teddy2Bear3Gaming (Posting again because I got no responses before) Looking to get a very cheap pc instead of Xbox S

Looking for a cheap build for gaming and maybe streaming. Buying this instead of Xbox S
What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.
Mostly gaming. FSX, fall guys, fortnite, Minecraft. Also might try KVM hackintosh(meaning I need both integrated and discrete gpu). Video editing in Final Cut Pro. maybe also recording and streaming
What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?
*$400usd. Not willing to go very far over budget
When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.
In the next month or so. Should I wait for Black Friday? I will be getting this pc instead of the new Xbox.
**What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/ Pc and monitor
Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?
California, USA. I have a local computer store that is kinda similar to micro center but I think they are closed
If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.
Acer generic membrane keyboard
Logitech m720 mouse
I have a crappy old 1280x1024 vga monitor that I could maybe use
Assorted external hdds and a 640gb internal from an old desktop that was rarely used
Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
Sure
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)
At least 500gb boot drive, in order to be able to dual boot. 8 threads is good because KVM hackintosh
Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?
Smaller is better but that is probably hard at this price point
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
What restrictions does unactivated windows have? I know that there’s no customization but is there any other restriction? If I need a product key I’ll get a cheap one on eBay or something
Extra info or particulars:
Must have both integrated and dedicated graphics in order to do a KVM hackintosh. AMD graphics preferred. I am open to buying used parts. At this price point would I be better off buying an optiplex or something and upgrading it? The problem I have with that is there’s no room to upgrade in future.
I don’t necessarily need it to compete with the Xbox in performance. I want a pc that can play the games I already have and do some other tasks such as video editing faster than my MacBook Air.
My pcpartpicker list (it’s a bit over budget): PCPartPicker Part List
Type Item Price
CPU AMD Ryzen 3 3200G 3.6 GHz Quad-Core Processor $95.00
Motherboard ASRock B450M-HDV R4.0 Micro ATX AM4 Motherboard $71.98 @ Amazon
Memory Team T-FORCE VULCAN Z 16 GB (2 x 8 GB) DDR4-3200 CL16 Memory $25.00
Storage Silicon Power A55 512 GB 2.5" Solid State Drive $47.99 @ Amazon
Video Card ASRock Radeon RX 570 4 GB Phantom Gaming D Video Card $85.00
Case Deepcool MATREXX 30 MicroATX Mini Tower Case $35.00
Power Supply Thermaltake Smart Series 430 W 80+ Certified ATX Power Supply $42.99 @ Amazon
Monitor Sceptre E205W-16003R 19.5" 1600x900 75 Hz Monitor $40.00
Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts
Total $442.96
Generated by PCPartPicker 2020-09-18 13:57 EDT-0400
I put custom prices for stuff I plan to get used and I’ll get a crappy old monitor on Craigslist probably.
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2020.09.18 17:28 Mountain_Chickenn Can't communicate with client after 2-way email ceased to work

Hi! I took my first job four months ago, and didn't know Craigslist's email ceased to work after that date. Nor did I ask my client to give me their email (yeah, I know).
Now, we've been unable to communicate for a week. I've already contacted her by the "social media" I know (Pinterest) and have attached my contact information in my email signature. But, by the time she decides to call me, plenty of time will be lost.
Do you have any ideas?
Edit: yes, I’m absolutely sure my client isn’t a scammer. We’ve been working together for some time and everything had been going well. This was just bad planning.
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2020.09.18 16:53 tiffysinterlude Got scammed on Craigslist for an apartment

Editing for location: I’m in Northern California just north of SF
Hi all,
So I’m going to go ahead here and admit to doing a stupid thing. I found an apartment on Craigslist last NovembeDecember and got in touch with the person who listed it about renting. Everything seemed legitimate for a situation where it was someone renting their guest house on their own.
I didn’t ask to see the property because I was working at the time and my commute was 1 1/2-2 hours each way to where I was living. I also was communicating with this person over Thanksgiving and was spending time with loved ones.
They wanted a security deposit and then two month’s rent. I was ready because I was in a relationship I did not want to be in anymore and in trying to get myself out of it I jumped at the first opportunity I could to leave. So I sent the money via Chase Quick Pay, the person gave me his email, his wife’s email, and all of the bank account info. We set a date for me to move in.
On the move in day, I showed up at the front house since I was supposed to be renting a house in the backyard. The woman who answered the door had no idea who I was or what I was talking about, but tells me this happens to her a lot and that people steal pictures of the house in her yard from her own rental listings and scam people. She told me she hoped I would report it to the police and legitimize her claims about people doing this. I was embarrassed and I told her I wasn’t going to call the police, but if she wanted to add me as a witness/victim to whatever she tells the police she can. We exchanged numbers as well.
So I left, called Chase, and the customer service person on the phone filed the incident under fraud. Apparently they also put a hold on this person’s account, because their names and bank account info were legitimate. Chase gave me my money back, too. The guy started emailing me asking me to call Chase and get the hold taken off his account, and that he would give me my money back if i did. I said no, because Chase had already credited it back to me (didn’t tell him that, all I said to him was “no thank you.)”
I thought it was done, then a few days later I hear from Chase, they have taken back the money they credited to me and determined it was a legitimate business dealing even though the guy scammed me. Since I had used Quick Pay and use my fingerprint to get into the app, they could do nothing for me.
I never heard from the guy again after that, and Chase didn’t really help me after they told me they didn’t have any protections against scams. So I’m wondering, what could I have done differently? Besides the obvious of not renting off Craigslist, especially without seeing the property. Is there anything I still can do? I know I went and did a dumb and irresponsible thing, but now I’m at a point where I really could have used that money back and I’m kind of stuck.
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2020.09.18 16:47 BuckRowdy [Update] The rise and fall and the depths of depravity of pedophile Jared Fogle from Subway.

This is an updated and edited version of a post I originally submitted at /redditcrimecommunity. It's been updated with the latest info.
I used to be kind of obsessed with the idea of Jared from Subway. He always seemed like nothing more than wallpaper in a commercial, a guy whose job amounted to holding up a comically giant pair of pants for seconds at a time in commercials. How much do you think they paid that guy to do that?
I used to search to see if I could find out Jared's salary or his net worth because to me it seemed like he had the easiest job in the world. Just stand there and smile, hold up the giant pants, shake a few kids hands at store openings and other corporate promotional events; essentially play the character of Jared from the Subway commercials.
The Midwestern everyman who once weighed over 425 pounds and lost it all by eating at Subway every day. Of course the fine print at the bottom of the screen gave the wider context to his weight loss routine, but there was a much wider, much darker context to Jared's story that would only be revealed years later.
Jared started working for Subway in 2000. By 2005 they had stopped featuring him in commercials and their sales declined by 10%. They quickly reinstated him and he was a fixture ever since.
It is true that Jared did lose the weight, and he did do it in part by eating at Subway.
At this point it would be reasonable to ask how did he get the money as a college student to eat all his meals at Subway?
Because he was running a porn video rental business out of his apartment at the time and had an extensive collection. You've got to remember that this was in an era where media of all types was more difficult to obtain. You didn't have everything at your fingertips back then.
Subway opened up on the ground floor and Jared was lazy so he started eating all his meals there.
The rest of Jared's story is marketing mythology. A friend wrote an article in the student newspaper that got published in Men's Health which caught the eye of Subway's marketing department. Jared started working for Subway in 2000 and up until about 2007 it appeared to be a marketing master stroke. That's when the reports started trickling out. In 2007, TMZ published the story about the porn rental business.
We'd learn later that as early as 2008, Subway had received serious reports about Jared from a franchisee in Florida that Jared had befriended at a few store openings. Cindy Mills, the franchisee said:
"He would just tell me he really liked them young," she says. Fogle and Mills had a sexual relationship, which lead Fogle to disclose disturbing details of his criminal activity in lewd text messages.
Mills says she tried to blow the whistle by phoning ad executive Jeff Moody — then CEO of the Subway Franchisee Advertising Fund Trust (SFAFT) — after Fogle had told her that he had sex both in Thailand and the US with child prostitutes between the ages of 9 and 16 years old. According to Mills, Moody stopped her mid-conversation and said, "Don't worry, he has met someone. She is a teacher and he seems to love her very much, and we think she will help keep him grounded." Mills also claims she spoke with two more SFAFT execs after Moody, but ran into more dead ends.
Jared was up to no good for years, but his world really started to crumble in 2015 with the arrest of Russell Taylor. Taylor was Jared's partner in his non-profit charity and he was just as bad as Jared if not worse.
Russell Taylor, the former director of Fogle's anti-childhood obesity foundation, was arrested in April [of 2015] on three counts of possession of child pornography, three counts of child exploitation, and three counts of voyeurism.
Taylor had gotten in trouble for texting a woman a picture of bestiality and suggesting such between the two of them. It's a sick thing to think about, but that's just what Jared and Russell were up to.
In one of those text messages, according to the affidavit, “Russell Taylor asked her if he and another adult female she identified could come to Jane Doe’s residence and engage in” an act of bestiality. The woman did not agree to that request, but told investigators “you could tell (Taylor) was serious.” She also told investigators that “she received an image file via text from Russell Taylor that depicted (another act of bestiality).”
Jared's house was raided and the rest quickly became history. Subway dropped him. Sharknado 3 dropped him. Jared accused Taylor of fraud and sued him. One quarter of the funds of the charity were unaccounted for, and the only money they ever paid out went to Taylor's $73k salary.
I'm no professional but it's hard not to draw the conclusion that Jared was paying Taylor to produce child porn with a non profit charity.
The world found out about Jared in 2015, but in 2007 and 2008 two women were finding out a lot about Jared.
Jared had met a franchisee in Florida and started a sexual relationship with her. She called the FBI when Jared started texting stuff like this:
In one series of texts sent from April 2008, Fogle tries to convince the franchisee, a woman, to advertise herself for sex on Craigslist. She could make $500 per act he explains and he could watch her have sex with other men. Fogle then goes on to apparently admit to paying for sex with a 16-year-old girl off Craigslist.
The woman franchisee writes: "Is this the same website you found that 16 year old you that you f---ed?" the woman replied, according to an affadavit.
  • "I still can't believe you only paid $100 for her."
  • Fogle reponds: "It was amazing!!!!"
  • "What part of her ad made you think she was selling sex?" the woman asked.
  • Fogle says "U will have to read them to see."
The woman got a lawyer and submitted the texts to Subway who sat on them.
Around the same time, Jared met Rochelle Herman Walrond, a journalist who initially remained anonymous, who came forward and said that she got suspicious about Jared when he called middle school girls hot
According to the woman, Jared would often visit schools in Sarasota County, and allegedly told her numerous times that, 'Middle school girls are hot.'"
She contacted the FBI who asked her to wear a wire. She went on to record Jared over a nearly 5 year period, pleading with the FBI to go ahead and arrest him with them always saying that they didn't have enough evidence and needed more.
So she tried to get Jared to incriminate himself. Over that 4.5 year period they talked about a lot of stuff, like that Jared wanted to fly to Thailand to have sex with children.
"I would fly all three of us clear across the world if we need to,"[Jared] says on the tape. "It would just make things a lot easier — if we're going to try and get some young kids with us. It would be a lot easier probably."
He gave her grooming tips:
"Well, if we get them segregated out ... you know, start talking or whatever ... and we get a little closer, and a little closer and a little closer and before you know it ... it just starts to happen," the man's voice says. "But I think that girl from the broken home could be a possibility, you know."
He daydreamed on the phone:
"Do you want to watch me f— a young girl, too?" the voice of Fogle asks. "Will you f— a young boy?" When Herman-Walrond asks if that would turn Fogle on, he responds with a whispered "yeah."
“I had a little boy. It was amazing,” Fogle reportedly said, in response to a question about being with children. “It just felt so good. I mean, it felt—it felt so good.”
He also, allegedly, asked her repeatedly to let him install hidden cameras in her kids’ rooms.
“I had two young children at the time, and he talked to me about installing hidden cameras in their rooms and asked me if I would choose which child I would like him to watch,” she told Inside Edition.
The audio recordings can be heard at this link. She reported him to Subway in 2009 and nothing happened.
At the same time this was happening, Jared was flying to New York to pay for sex with minors. He asked the minors who he paid for sex if they knew anyone else they could recommend, always stressing younger if possible.
Also, according to the charging documents:
Fogle received "images and videos of nude of partially clothed minors engaged in sexually explicit conduct," which were allegedly recorded by Russell Taylor, the former director of the Jared Foundation.
Taylor secretly filmed some of the minors in his home using hidden cameras that captured them changing clothes and bathing.
Taylor was in possession of 400 videos of child pornography upon his arrest.
In 2011, someone else reported Jared to Subway via their website and yet nothing happened.
All this came raining down on Jared in 2015 when his house was raided and he was arrested and later charged with 14 acts of sex involving minors. He was ultimately sentenced to 15 years in jail and had to pay restitution to his 14 of his many victims totaling $1.4 million. His wife divorced him as quick as she could, Subway cut ties with him and the dominoes started to tumble.
All of a sudden the past reports about Jared came to light and Subway didn't have an explanation. Lawsuits started flying. Jared's now ex wife accused Subway of covering up Jared's pedophilia even from her because their marriage made Jared more grounded and more marketable.
It's now a sick joke, but at the same time of jared's arrest, Subway was trying to rebrand him as a family man.
So why didn't Subway act on the various reports it had gotten about Jared over the years? As this site puts it, it was a story bookended by laziness. Jared's laziness brought him to Subway, and their laziness in vetting stories led to the end of the Jared era with a lot of human misery left in his wake.
Subway has waffled in its response. Rather than taking the path of clear messaging and communication, and aiming to transparent and authentic throughout this terrible situation for the victims and Fogle’s family (as well as the brand), the company hasn’t been clear about where it stands in the midst of this crisis. What message was Subway sending to its employees and franchisees by keeping Fogle around for as long as it did?
As soon as he went to jail he instantly gained 30 pounds
In 2016, he filed an appeal which was denied. The DA's office argued:
[that] Fogle's text messages to a woman, in which Fogle stated he would "pay big" if she could procure 14-year-old children, and that he "craved" underage Asian girls. In these text messages, he also expressed sexual interest in young boys, although there is to date no evidence that he paid for sex with male children.
Later that same year, a brawl broke out and Jared was nearly killed in an attack meant to send a message to all pedophiles.
Other than that, rumor has it that Jared has it pretty easy in jail which is disappointing to hear given all that he's responsible for.
In 2017, Fogle tried to pull the Sovereign Citizen defense and claim that the feds didn't have jurisdiction over him which I imagine gave the feds a good laugh. The motion was dismissed.
In 2018, Jared sued to void his conviction going so far as to name the president (among others) as a defendant. It was unclear how the president was involved and Jared was forced to remove him as a defendant.
He claimed:
he was wrongfully allowed to plead guilty to conspiracy to receive child pornography, claiming that conspiracy doesn’t apply to such an offense.
His suit was dismissed.
That same year a woman pen pal of Jared's sold their racy letters to Radar Online. Seen here and here. She also sold a recorded phone call where she and Jared discuss porn and his sexual preferences.
If he wanted to appeal to a parole board, surely sending hand-drawn pictures of his genitalia that later end up on radar online is not a good strategy.
In March 2020, three of associate Russell Taylor's child pornography convictions were overturned for ineffective counsel. He still faces trial on 9 other charges.
In the five years since Fogle was arrested, Subway has been reeling. In 2015, their co-founder passed away and a new CEO was brought in. Internal reports indicate that customer traffic is down 30%. They've laid off over 400 people from the corporate HQ and this summer they had to revoke a promotion due to a franchisee revolt over the pricing.
Subway was associated so long with Jared it may take time for customers to form a new association. They tried to drop him once, struggled, and re-hired him. Clearly Subway lived in denial while Jared was their spokesman and looked the other way as business boomed. The new marketing strategy involves athletes. Time will only tell if they can recover from one of the worst scandals to ever hit a sandwich chain.
As of September 2020, Russell Taylor was being held at a federal prison in Yazoo City, Mississippi; Fogle was being held at a federal prison in Littleton, Colorado.
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2020.09.18 07:51 1Teddy2Bear3Gaming Looking for a cheap build for gaming and maybe streaming. Buying this instead of Xbox S

What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.
Mostly gaming. FSX, fall guys, fortnite, Minecraft. Also might try KVM hackintosh(meaning I need both integrated and discrete gpu). Video editing in Final Cut Pro. maybe also recording and streaming
What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?
*$320 usd
When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.
In the next month or so. Should I wait for Black Friday? I will be getting this pc instead of the new Xbox.
**What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/
Pc. Add additional $80 for monitor
Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?
California, USA. I have a local computer store that is kinda similar to micro center but I think they are closed
If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.
Acer generic membrane keyboard
Logitech m720 mouse
I have a crappy old 1280x1024 vga monitor that I could maybe use
Assorted external hdds and a 640gb internal from an old desktop that was rarely used
Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
Sure
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)
At least 500gb boot drive, in order to be able to dual boot. 8 threads is good because KVM hackintosh
Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?
Smaller is better but that is probably hard at this price point
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
What restrictions does unactivated windows have? I know that there’s no customization but is there any other restriction?
Extra info or particulars:
Must have both integrated and dedicated graphics in order to do a KVM hackintosh. AMD graphics preferred. I am open to buying used parts. At this price point would I be better off buying an optiplex or something and upgrading it? The problem I have with that is there’s no room to upgrade in future.
I don’t necessarily need it to compete with the Xbox in performance. I want a pc that can play the games I already have and do some other tasks such as video editing faster than my MacBook Air.
My pcpartpicker list: PCPartPicker Part List
Type Item Price
CPU AMD Ryzen 3 3200G 3.6 GHz Quad-Core Processor $95.00
Motherboard ASRock B450M-HDV R4.0 Micro ATX AM4 Motherboard $71.98 @ Amazon
Memory Team T-FORCE VULCAN Z 16 GB (2 x 8 GB) DDR4-3200 CL16 Memory $25.00
Storage Silicon Power A55 512 GB 2.5" Solid State Drive $47.99 @ Amazon
Video Card ASRock Radeon RX 570 4 GB Phantom Gaming D Video Card $85.00
Case Deepcool MATREXX 30 MicroATX Mini Tower Case $35.00
Power Supply Thermaltake Smart Series 430 W 80+ Certified ATX Power Supply $42.99 @ Amazon
Monitor Sceptre E205W-16003R 19.5" 1600x900 75 Hz Monitor $40.00
Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts
Total $442.96
Generated by PCPartPicker 2020-09-18 13:57 EDT-0400
I put custom prices for stuff I plan to get used and I’ll get a crappy old monitor on Craigslist probably
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2020.09.18 06:40 PowderPuffGruff Confession, soapbox, whatever

Hello fellow humans.
i am not sure what this is, I am just going to rant. So I recently have realized I am a sex addict. And for me there is so escape and I fear I and my life will self destruct soon. My problem comes from two factors. Physical and mental and I'll go over why I am doomed. Lol
-2nd. A have a genetic predisposition for something called Prostate stones. This means I experience extreme pain in my testicles if I don't ejaculate often enough. So avoiding sex or masturbation is pretty impossible.
ALRIGHT
Mental part. I have an intense impregnation fetish that consumes me. I pretty much think about nothing else. This originated when I was 18. I didn't know I had hereditary angioedema and my doctors were flummoxed I spent most days hardly able to walk with only a good 6 hours each day with normal pain free existence. On Craigslist I found a lesbian couple looking for a sperm donor, they wanted natural insemination, being younger I was excited at the idea having never had a sexual encounter before. With my unknown illness i thought I would be dead soon so I went along with idea. The experience shaped me in ways I didn't expect. After they got pregnant we parted ways. A doctor soon found out what I had, and I started treatment treatment and my life became normal for the most part. However I soon realized after dating that I didn't seem to be able to achieve orgasm without the impregnation being possible. Condoms ,birth control all of it, held me back. I use to tell my dates not to tell me if they were on anything.
later on I found my love of my life. And we have been dating for years now. She recently had a problem that made it so she couldn't take bird control, and suddenly condoms because mandatory. Mentally this broke me, but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. That I'd rather watch porn of my fetish then have sex.
Almost right away I was desperate for an outlet. I got on tinder looking not really to cheat, but maybe to find someone to sext with. i found a new nice friend, I was very upfront about not wanting anything serious. we sexted, traded nudes, she even shared my fetish. It was nice. After a while she confessed her love for me. This was upsetting because now I was toying with someones heart, useing them for my psychosexual relief, but I couldn't cut it off. I needed her. Anything to keep my addiction at bay. We kept at it a while, but we decided to part ways, what we had wasn't healthy.
This comes to now. I am without an outlet. My relationship with my love is strong, but I am doomed. I find myself texting escorts, going to happy ending massage places praying they give more. I confessed to my love and she doesn't care about the massages as long as it just handjobs. I then told her about my fetish and how extreme it is. She didn't seem to understand. I am now stuck forced to use condoms, and constantly thinking about cheating on my girlfriend because of something I know is wrong and wished wasn't a part of me. I can't go cold turkey or really even manage it. I am screwed ,my mental state will win out and I will ruin my life. Just a matter of time.
I don't know why I wrote this, just wanted someone to know. Please pm or comment if you have advise. ❤️
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2020.09.18 04:43 x23896 Trust issues, among others - Am I overreacting?

My fiance (M30) and I (F24) have been together for 6 years and we just moved in together in March. We've had our problems like any relationship but I've been miserable since we moved in together. I think he expects me to be a mom more than a partner; I do all the grocery shopping, pay the bills, take out trash and recycling, do the dishes, walk our dogs and clean up/train/etc with new puppy, meal prep for both of us, vacuum, mop, clean living spaces, do his laundry, I even pack his lunch. All I ask is that he folds his clean clothes and scrubs the bathrooms. We originally split the chores much more evenly, until I actually moved in and he stopped putting any effort in. So that's part of the reason why I'm stressed all the time. Moving on ~ since we started dating, I used to find chewing tobacco tins and spit bottles in his storage bed. He lived with his parents until we moved out and claimed they were his dad's, and his dad did it in his room to hide it from his mom. Both of my parents have had issues with nicotine so that made sense to me. Fast forward ~ I started finding the tins and spit bottles at our apartment about a month ago. Each time I confront him about it, he says something different. And each time he also pokes holes in whatever reason he told me previously. A few days ago he lied about going out after I went to bed (told me he didn't) and he left a receipt on my desk that he bought some. I'm feeling helpless. Each time I've confronted him, because I've noticed how he pokes holes in his previous lies, I've said specifically that I'd be more upset if I found out he was lying, than if he was actually using it. He's came up with very believable lies on the spot each time and gone with those instead. We've had previous issues with things like infidelity, specifically serious flirting with other girls in public and on facebook (i.e posting 'I need 😘' on peoples pictures and worse) and me finding emails of him trying to hookup with people off Craigslist about a year in before I'd have sex with him. He explained those away as well. I'm hurt that he kept lying each time with the chewing tobacco, even though I gave him an out. I also said that we've come so far since the above issues and I've never felt more secure in our relationship/trusting of him, so I'd want him to tell me instead of lying about even bad things like this, so we don't go back to the way we were before. But he STILL actively made the choice to break my trust AGAIN without skipping a beat, made it seem so believable, and went on like normal. Now that I have solid proof with this issue, I'm fully convinced that he's an incredible liar and can come up with anything on the spot to keep me around. On one hand I feel like I'm being ridiculous because I'm questioning our whole relationship over this issue, on the other I feel like he's completely violated my trust to a point that idk if we can salvage it because it's making me call into question anything he's told me before with any issue we've had. I'm also finding myself questioning a lot of his own personal stories about high school/growing up because they're embellished to the point that they seem cringy Hallmark Movie fake. I haven't been happy for a while and have been hoping we'd get better with each step forward, like moving in together, but it seems each step has made things worse. He limited my social activities during college and study abroad so I've missed out on a lot. Aside from personal issues, our sex life is non-existent. He's had a yeast infection diagnosed since April but I noticed symptoms going back a year, so we haven't had penetrative sex for quite a while. His lying had made me question if he's had this due to poor hygiene like he said his doctor said (he works 12 hour shifts outside, he told me his doc said these infections are common for men with these jobs because of the heat) or if he's been cheating and caught something. He's always been a big guy (5'10", 275) which I love, but he's put on almost 125 since we started dating. I've gained weight too but I've made an effort to get healthy this last year and am back to 160 at 5'4". He's just not attractive to me whatsoever anymore and wastes all the healthy food I cook him. We've also just put our wedding off again, moving it to October 2022. I feel like I keep making serious life compromises for this guy and now I feel like he's a compulsive liar, like this isn't going anywhere and my life is on hold as long as I'm with him. I can't tell if I'm overreacting or if maybe this is just a smaller issue that's tipped the iceberg, but I feel ready to walk away. I haven't been in a serious relationship like this before and I know people say you need to put effort in to make love work, so I can't tell if this is just one of those things where I need to put serious work in and choose to stay in order to keep love alive and keep the relationship. Am I overreacting with the conclusions I'm drawing from this lie? Or am I in my head too much due to stress from moving in, COVID, and our sex life, and taking it out on him?
TL; DR: Caught my fiance in a 6 year lie and I'm feeling like I want to leave him. It was so believable that I'm not sure if he's a compulsive liar and lied to cover himself in other issues like infidelity, and I should walk away. Or if I'm just overreacting due to stress with COVID, his large weight gain, and just moving in together. People say you have to choose to be in a relationship and fight for love to make marriage work. I can't tell if this is one of those trials, or if it's just a bright red flag to finally walk away.
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2020.09.17 18:28 roguespectre67 Y’all need to stop it with your conspiracy theories about the 3080 launch

I get it. You’re butthurt that you couldn’t get your shiny new toy on release day. I went through the same thing when the 8700k launched.
But jesus christ people, the fact that everything went out of stock instantly across pretty much all retailers does not mean that there’s some vast conspiracy to artificially inflate prices by deliberately reducing supply so that Nvidia can pad their sales revenue. What fucking sense does that even make? Everyone who knows anything about economics knows that volume is much easier to achieve than high profit margins. Even Amazon operates on paper-thin margins, but the CEO is the richest man on the planet. For god’s sake, the 3080 is the biggest jump in performance per dollar we’ve seen in a mainstream GPU in years. It’s been the source of huge hype everywhere, and rightfully so. Of course people are going to be incentivized to write or buy bots to rake in as many of them as they can to scalp them on Ebay or Craigslist or wherever. Occam’s Razor, people.
This has happened on every single major hardware launch I’ve followed. It happens every year because retailers haven’t bothered to implement sufficient measures to stop it. Aside from that, manufacturing and supply chains this year have been absolutely upended because of, y’know, the deadly disease consuming the world. GPUs aren’t the only thing with diminished stock. Power supplies are hard to find depending on what you want. Nikon has still not been able to supply enough stock of their new 70-200 2.8 despite several missed launch dates and delays amounting to almost an entire YEAR of limbo for those of us with orders (on a $2,600 lens, no less). Fucking toilet paper was in short supply everywhere for months earlier this year.
Y’all really need to get a fucking grip and stop the vitriol and hatred because you couldn’t get your shiny new toy when you wanted it. Nvidia is not some evil corporation trying to squeeze every dollar out of us as consumers. If they were, they wouldn’t have set their prices so competitively with the new cards. They are vulnerable to exactly the same type of third-party economic manipulation (and outside circumstance) as every other company that sells a desirable material good. Put down your goddamn pitchforks and do what we’ve all had to do every single time a new component launches-keep checking around and get one when you can.
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2020.09.16 22:39 cityentrep 11 profitable business ideas you can build without code

Building your own tech-enabled business is more accessible than ever before.
No code tools are the superpower for the digital economy. Here's 11 profitable online business opportunities for anyone, even if you don't know how to code
1. A job board
💡 The idea
⚙️ How to build it without code
🧲 How to get and retain users
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

2. A custom app for real estate agents
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

3. A paid newsletter
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize

🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

4. A dating app for a specific niche
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?
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5. A paid membership recipe app
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

7. An e-commerce store on Shopify
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

9. Start a local marketplace in your city
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

10. Build websites for local businesses
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

11. Productize content marketing for online businesses
💡 The idea
🧲 How to get and retain users
⚙️ How to build it without code
💰 How to monetize
🤔 Who’s doing it profitably?

If you liked this, you can check out the full article here, and learn more about how to build with no code at No Code MBA!
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2020.09.16 20:57 Chingparr [Indiana] My Grandfather was defrauded thousands by a multiple-time felon. I have all of his info.

Recently, my retired grandfather hired a reputable contracting company to fix his gutters on his house.
They sent a sub-contractor named Wade to do the job. Wade offered to re-do the siding on the house for a reasonable price under the table, and my grandfather agreed.
The way he described it to me, I figured Wade was working WITH the contractors on the siding. I wasn't aware he was going under the table. He and my Grandpa drove past my house (2 blocks away) to say Hi while my wife and I were doing yard work. I thought nothing of it, since my Grandpa is a super nice guy and might be buying Wade lunch or something.
I notice that a week or so has passed, and my Grandpa's siding was ripped off, with no signs of the new stuff being hung up. Last night, I asked him about it and he told me Wade took a $2500 cash deposit, ripped the old siding off and ghosted him.
Now... I work in Cyberforensics, so I'm an expert at tracking people down... one tiny acorn comes my way, and I can find the whole freaking tree in a matter of hours. Here is what I've found.
In a nutshell, with this being a cash transaction, I'm not sure if there is anything we can do. My only thought is to file a police report, and speak with a lawyer about any legal recourse. My only other thought would be to feign interest in his services and cut him a check, and put a stop pay on it to possibly prove he is defrauding people, and leave my own paper trail. I'm sure this is illegal though.
Please help!
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2020.09.16 07:08 jiyajames94 Craigslist Personal Alternatives Site 2020 – 2021 Casual Sex Encounter - Meet Girls Dating

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2020.09.16 05:46 haunted_ruminations I feel like I'm going mad and can't fully trust my own thoughts! What would you do?

A couple of years ago I found out that my partner (boyfriend sounds juvenile considering how long we have been together) of 13 years was seriously frequenting strip clubs. He would go several times a week (just learned of frequency as well) and have sexual email exchanges with some (old info for me). Originally, something didn't feel right so I snooped and made the discovery of the emails which led to him telling me that they were strippers and not an actual affair. Fast forward to the present, I just found out that he also made out with at least one stripper while at the club and went on a date (sounds like she was fishing for a sugar daddy but he couldn't see that at the time). He was also concurrently putting up ads on Craigslist (this was before they removed personals) for women. Some of these women sent nude pics and were taken to the strip clubs as well. Anyway, this has nothing to do with me thinking strippers or other women are after him.
If you didn't know any of this stuff, you would think he was a super friendly, intelligent, funny, kind and great guy. And he is all those things. But this post will most certainly give a lopsided view of him as a whole person if I only list my complaints. Instead, this has more to do with my feeling extremely betrayed and insecure in my relationship with him and within myself. My mind keeps telling me that I will never be enough. I don't believe anything he tells me or that he is fully disclosing the truth since he has trickle truthed in the past. I do believe he is making some effort to be truthful, but part of me is scared that he is just going to hurt me again. It is exhausting trying to figure out what is true and feeling as if I cannot even trust my own judgement. After all, I was totally blind sighted by all of this. I don't know if I can get past it this time.
I really believed that we were fully committed to each other. This is someone I love. I thought we were best friends. I thought he really wanted a future with me, which he still insists he does. But his actions certainly didn't say that. I didn't find out about these things for a while after they actually happened so it feels as if I am expected to not hold onto it since it's in his past. But it's fresh for me and makes me feel that my life is a lie. And before you go blaming me for bringing this on myself for not putting out, please note that he was the one who withheld from me. I've been the sexually deprived one and I never betrayed him. Also, I am more than a decade younger than him and healthier than he is. Based on what I have seen online, the next thing people will say is that I brought it on myself if I gained any weight because men are visual and you need to keep yourself looking 20 for life. Yes, I have put on some weight but most of it was after these issues began. Also, since we have no kids or property together, there was nothing tying him down if he felt that he needed to date someone who fits a certain body type. Nevermind that he has been overweight for most of his life. I have been very good to him and feel that even if at any point he did not want to be with me that he should have parted with me without disrespecting me like this.
I keep thinking about how I ended up in this situation and that maybe I should spend my life alone for my sanity. I am the child of an alcoholic and drug addict and believe I have some codependent tendencies as a result. If I brought this on myself, I believe it has more to do with what I experienced in my youth and the patterns I may now seek out. Unfortunately, it turns out that they are basic patterns and not necessarily exact. My partner, if he is any kind of addict, is not an alcoholic or drug addict. I suppose that we all struggle with our own demons, but I don't feel strong enough, especially now, to handle his on top of trying to process all of this. Note that my partner and I have spoken once for several hours after the recent discovery. He has a difficult time discussing these things because it forces him to view himself in a negative light. I don't know that further productive conversations are in the more immediate future and I am not sure they would matter anyway. I suppose the strippers allowed him live in a far more pleasant illusion. Being real wasn't good enough. If I were on the outside looking in, I would probably just say to walk away, but it isn't so easy when you have a long history with someone and are emotionally entangled. Presently, we also live together. While I value honesty, please be kind in sharing your thoughts. I am already broken. I am sharing this here to avoid judgement from friends and family. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, wisdom and advice.
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2020.09.16 02:08 Snoo989898 OLD strategy for unacceptable dates

-Movie at home
-cook at home
-hangout in car
-get hotel room / Airbnb
-walk “date” NO NO NO NO NO
-hike, kayak, bike
-coffee
-drink
-picnic
-video date. Even if you want to video chat first, this shouldn’t be his opening offer to you.
-Uses the word hangout / chill to ask you out. This is not him asking you on a date. This is him stating his true intentions.
All of these dates are now being justified by men because of coronavirus. If a man is comfortable risking his life to meet random internet strangerS (yes, more than just you) for the possibility of sex, he is comfortable going to a restaurant. He is offering you a free date because he wants something free and now has an excuse of the coronavirus.
Every single day I see women trying to navigate these date requests by RESPONDING to them. Whether it is saying they want something else or saying what is wrong with the “date” or below them. Please stop responding at all. They know what they are doing. If you stop responding, maybe they will upgrade you on their own. But if someone offers you a low ball date, please just take them at face value. Most likely you should just unmatch them. If you don’t want to unmatch, go silent and see if they upgrade you. Please stop responding. It’s so sad.
You are NOT an auction. You do not start with the lowest offer and work your way up with bids.
You are NOT selling a used item on Craigslist. You do not go through the trouble of listing an item to be accept lower offers or help someone see your value.
When I see the help being given to men after they offer a free date, it sounds like this to me:
“I will not accept this low value offer for my bike!!!! This is a great bike and I deserve $30 for it even though the resell value is $300. Offer me something better!!!!”
Or
“I understand you don’t know that this is a $300 bike I’m only selling for $30 but please offer me the full $30 because I really want to sell it to you even though you think it has no value and are just hoping to have sex with it. Thanks.”
You have put a profile online and are now accepting HVM with HV date offers. Anything else is below you. The date offer must be made by him and involve: money (minimum $25), use the word date, and be planned ahead of time by him. Ideally, even during coronavirus, he should be offering you a nice dinner date even if you just to decline for safety.
Anything else just isn’t a date. It’s a free zero investment offer he is justifying because of coronavirus. Please stop responding to him. Wait for someone who knows your worth on his own.
There are so many men online. Almost all are LV. You are trying to sort the men into 2 categories based on limited information. If they offer you something you think is lower than you, put them in the LV category and move on. We are only looking for HVM.
Also to be very clear, just because you get an acceptable date offer or go on a few nice dates, it does not mean he is HV.
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2020.09.15 17:44 majkaveli I feel like I traveled into the future and I don’t like it.

I was in a LTR for 14 years so last time I dated the closest thing to tinder was the casual encounters section on Craigslist and that was filled with dudes wanting to give blowjobs.
Fast forward 14 years and I’ve spent now about 3 weeks on tinder and a few other apps. I’ve got plenty of matches, hooked up a few times and made some new friends.
My conclusion:
  1. There are too many single mamas out there
  2. Most people have absolutely no originality (like adventures, make me laugh)
  3. There are too many single mamas out there! Why are so many young beautiful women having kids and why are there so many dudes not taking care of their kids?
  4. This shit is addictive as fuck, it’s like having too many games and not knowing what to play
  5. A lot of women are overweight and they are trying to hide it via some angle magic and I wonder if they put that much effort into hiding their weight why they don’t put it into loosing some weight?
I’m 35m no kids, to help with perspective.
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2020.09.15 16:40 letsjustgiveupand I had a dream about my ex last night.

I don’t know why. I never think about him. We broke up over a year and a half ago, and stopped talking a year ago when I started dating my current boyfriend. My boyfriend is a dream come true. We live together. We’re adopting a puppy in a few weeks. I’ve never felt so happy or so loved, and he’s provided me with more emotional and financial stability than my ex could ever have provided in a lifetime. My ex was unstable, suffering from mental health issues he refused to get treated for, was unable to save money or even regulate spending, and ended the relationship by cheating on me. And after the woman he cheated with left him, he turned back to me for attention. I very cautiously entered into a tentative friendship with him, solely because we’d been best friends/dated for three years, and it was hard to imagine life without him.
Right before I started dating my boyfriend, I realized how much negativity my ex was bringing into my life and I broke off contact. And I’ve really hardly ever thought about him since. And then last night I had a dream about him, that he was dating someone new and introduced her to me, and I felt weirdly jealous. Maybe because after he realized I was with someone new a year ago, he blew up my phone to tell me I was just looking for attention, that he needed me in his life. I disagreed with him, but I think I felt some sort of sick satisfaction, like after he hurt me so badly, he was running back. I’d never take him back. Like I said, my new boyfriend is an actual dream come true, better than I thought I could ever have. But I think part of me liked the idea of him suffering a little bit after the pain he caused me. And the idea of him being happy with someone new still hurt even though I never thought about him until now.
I googled him when I woke up. I deleted him on Facebook but his account is private and I didn’t want to add him again. But I did see that he had opened an Instagram account with one picture of himself and a new girl. The caption was “She’s something else.” He looked happy. And even though he ripped my heart out of my chest, after all of his suffering, he does deserve some happiness. I still felt that pang of jealousy, but as I’m writing this, my boyfriend is sitting on the other side of our studio apartment, listening to music while listing some of our old shit on Craigslist so we can make room for a new puppy. Later we’re going shopping for puppy stuff. And I’ve never been more happy or more anxiety-free.
So no harm done I guess.
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